Performance Lab Environment for Mental Clarity and Focus
High performers are seldom incompetent. They struggle with carryover. Carryover of stress. Carryover of emotion. Carryover of intensity from one room to another. The Performance Lab was created to be built on that reality. I’m leading a team of specialist mental health practitioners facing
High Performance Without Burnout
When work is in the high performers’ way, it is very addictive. They are quick, decisive, disciplined, competitive and outcome-oriented. They raise standards. They move projects forward. They don't tolerate mediocrity. And in clinical and organisational contexts they typically come across as focused, resilient
15 Lessons from 15 Years of Leading a Mental Health Clinic
This year marks 15 years since I first opened the doors of Willingness. Honestly, I never imagined the journey would be quite like this. Back then, all I had was a vision, a stubborn sense of purpose, and the belief that Malta needed a
Stay with the Feeling
I see that in the clinic every week and can see it in myself. The second a feeling snaps, we grab for the exit. A new playlist, a new job, a new partner — anything to outrun the pinch of sadness, anger, fear or
When Your Feelings Flash Like a Dashboard Light
I still remember the first time the oil light flashed during a late-night drive from a workshop, tired and distracted. My pulse quickened immediately as I stared at the dashboard, wondering what had gone wrong this time, slightly panicked. I became frustrated and focused
When Love Turns to Hate: Why Justice Must Stay in the Courtroom and Not Online
Working with couples and individuals whose marriage is on the brink of dissolution, a therapist by name, I have personally witnessed the full emotional journey of love, from intimacy and connection to disappointment, betrayal, and sometimes, rage. It is at these points of rupture
