I Was Over-Critical of Myself
How Negative self talk affects you well into your future. For the better part of my life, I tortured myself mercilessly with no mercy, just like that. My crass inner critic never stopped finding new things to criticize no matter how much I tried. A continuous refrain of such harsh self-talk weakened my faith in myself and left me less determined to succeed. I could not believe my capabilities and doubted whether I was suitable for all situations. That hard, negative internal attitude was with me everywhere, covering personal and professional milestones with a cloud of skepticism. I was
How to Set Goals with Kaizen & Ikigai by Anthony Raymond
How to Set Goals with Kaizen & Ikigai by Anthony Raymond Anthony Raymond is an independent author specializing in productivity and self-improvement. His focus is on synthesizing Eastern philosophies and practical methods of living today. Many of his best-known titles, especially, focus on continuous improvement through Kaizen & Ikigai and finding your vocation. Raymond's writing is marked by its pragmatic manner and clear presentation, enabling a wide audience to comprehend complex concepts. His writing attracted praise for its ability to incite success, for its emphasis in motivating readers to live their lives purposefully, then for making
A Promised Land by Barack Obama
A Promised Land by Barack Obama Barack Obama was the 44th President of the United States (2009 to 2017). He was the first African American to be president. And he served Illinois as senator before his presidential election. He won the Nobel Peace Prize in office. He published bestsellers The Audacity of Hope and Dreams from My Father. Obama’s books tell his personal and political story honestly. Barack Obama’s memoir about his life, A Promised Land, chronicles his life from childhood to the conclusion of his first term as President, culminating in the events that led
Make your bed by Admiral William H. McRaven
Make your bed by Admiral William H. McRaven Admiral William H. McRaven is a retired U.S. Navy Admiral and former Navy SEAL, formerly commander of U.S. Special Operations Command. He held numerous command positions through a 37-year military career in the special operations world. He oversaw among America’s most momentous military operations, including the effort that resulted in the killing of Osama bin Laden. McRaven is also a best-selling author and he has made it big — like his motivational and leadership books “Make Your Bed,’’ which builds on his viral 2014 University of Texas commencement
Stop Fixing Yourself by Anthony De Mello
Stop Fixing Yourself by Anthony De Mello Anthony De Mello, a Jesuit friar, had been born in Bombay, India, in 1931. He is widely acknowledged as one of the century's most influential spiritual instructors, known for his intermixing of Western and Eastern religions. De Mello launched the Sadhana Institute in India and published multiple bestselling works, including "The Way to Love" and "Awareness." His work, focused on self-awareness and self-understanding—despite the fact that he left in 1987—resounds globally among spiritual leaders and readers. Anthony De Mello's "Stop Fixing Yourself: Wake Up, All Is Well" is an
Narcissism in Management
The phenomenon of narcissism in management is many-layered and complex, dealing with issues in teams and decision-making. While it is often associated with negative traits such as arrogance and manipulativeness, it is also the driver of strong thought. Certain narcissistic traits contribute to organizational success, sometimes positively; others are counterproductive; yet one of their main functions is instilling confidence in leadership positions. If we look at some of the three dominant types of narcissism and their concomitant behaviors, we can see that they greatly impact the organizational growth of an organization. Narcissistic leaders take decisive action and pursue significant
Loneliness in Management: Overcoming and Comprehending the Silent Struggle
In the modern-day commercial world, management positions often herald professional fulfillment, an increased sense of accountability and the prospect of social influence. But in truth, it is a common and unspoken challenge that many managers must keep under the radar — loneliness. Underneath the veneer of authority and success, this psychological toll frequently hides in plain sight. This blog addresses loneliness in leadership positions in particular, its negative effect on mental and job performance wellbeing, and practical methods to tackle this frequently under-discussed topic. While loneliness may strike anyone, managers face unique challenges that magnify the loneliness they experience.
Blinded by Expectations: My Failure to Appreciate My Parents
I learnt through my early impressions/judgements Parental neglect to know what happened. I used to bash my parents and make it constant to emphasize flaws and the likes for years. More often than not, I focused on all of the things they could not understand or say and do to me. I started to focus on the things they ought to have done and never did. I was so tormented by the damage inflicted by all that was left over after their repeated failures to show up, I couldn’t escape the pain. Disappointment remained around their attitude and I
The Science of Mind Management
The Science of Mind Management by Swami Mukundananda. Swami Mukundananda is a well-known teacher and mindmaster who integrates old Vedic philosophy with new scientific methodology and mind-managing techniques. He graduated from IIT Delhi and IIM Calcutta but eventually gave up a promising career in the corporate world to be a monk under Jagadguru Shree Kripaluji Maharaj. Later Swami Mukundananda founded JKYog advocating yoga, spirituality, and mind control. Over the last 40 years or so, his books, chats and life-transforming talks, which combine wit, pragmatism and profound insights have inspired many millions in developing the modern way
The Happiest Man on Earth by Eddie Jaku
The Happiest Man on Earth by Eddie Jaku Eddie Jaku was born Abraham Jakubowicz in 1920 in Leipzig, Germany, with a loving Jewish parentage. As a young man, he saw for himself Nazi Germany's rise, the loss of his home and the terrible atrocities of concentration camps, like Auschwitz. In Australia, Eddie rebuilt his life after the war, despite the horrors of war and loss — a loving family and a successful career as an engineer. He spent his latter years telling his story to the vast world, telling thousands about resilience, kindness, and the spirit
